Kya apbhi kisi ki muhabbat me giraftar hogae hai ya kisi ke ishque me bimar hogae hai. Ye ishque bhut hi haseen hota hai jitni takleef ise pane me hoti hai utna hi sukh ise pane ke bad milta hai.
Aj hum sahitarika.com pe apko ladkiyo ko propose karne ka sahi tatika batane jarhe hai. Agar apke pas abhi tak koe girl friend nhi hai ya ap ladkiya patana chahte hai to niche dea link pe click pe click ker ke iske bare me bhi padh sakte hai:
Ladkiyo Ko Propose Kerne Ka Golden Rules
Jab ap kisi ko propose kerne jarhe hai to swabhavik hai ap use ache se jante ho tabhi apna bana chate ho ya propose kerne jarhe ho.
Propose kerne se pehle apko ye teen golden rules jaroor follow kerna chahea. Jisse apke chances badh jaenge.
Rule 1: Nae Tarike Se Propose Kare
Har ladki chahti hai ki jab bhi use koe propose kare to vo lamha uske lea yadgar ban jae. Aur ap bhi jab unhe propose kerte ho to ap bhi us lamhe ko yadgar banana chahoge.
Rule 2: Baat ko ghumao nhi
Ap agar payar kerte ho to unse sidhe bata do. Mujhe tum achi lagti ho ke bajae sidha bole ki “I Love You”. Kyu ki jitni besabi apko hai utni hi use bhi hai ye sunne kelea
Rule 3: Waqt do
Jab apne I Love You boldea to apne to apne dil ki baat ker di. Ab sabse important baat hai ke ye janna ke unke dil me kya hai. So thoda intezar kare ya agr ladki sure na hoto use waqt de taki is bare me soch sake.
Kisi bhi rishte me jaldbazi sahi nhi hoti. Apne unse I Love You kha kyuki apne unke lea vo feel kea, ap kae dino se use pasand kerte the, ap use us nazariye se dekhte the. Ab agr ladki bhi apse pyar kerti hai to vo fauran haa bol degi. Lekin agar usne is bare me nhi socha to use thoda sa time dejea.
Ladkiyo Ko Kyse Propose Kare
- Ap jyse hai vaise hi rahe: Ye kisi bhi relationship ka sabse important rule hota hai. Agar ap pretend kerne ki koshish karenge to kabhi bhi is rishte ko nibha nhi paeaga.
- Apne ghutno pe baith ker propose kare: Ab ap kahenge aksar log aise hi kerte hai isme naya kya hai. Aisa kerne se ap ladkiyo ko ye realise kerate hai ki tum mere lea kitni important ho.Mai apne igo, appne attitude, apne gusse, sabko side kerte tumhe sabse zada payar dunga aur khush rakhunga
- Use dinner pe lejae: Use kisi ache se restaurant me lejaea. Unki favourate dish khilaea. Unhe feel karea ki vo apkelea kitni important hai. Haan agar apka budget utna na ho to preshan na hoe. Ab kisi food court ya kisi ache se streat food corner pe bhi use khilane lejasakte hai
- Use letter ya note pe acha sa mess likh ker de: Halanki abhi internet ka zamana hai to humne letters ko whatsapp mess me badal dea hai. lekin yakeen manea agar ap apne hatho se use letter likh ker denge to use bhut pasand aaega
- Uske sath kahi bahar jae: Ap unke sath samundar ke kinare, sunsut dekhne, ya kisi shant si jagah pe jaker baith sakte hai. Ya ahar use travel ka shauk hai to ap use long drive pe bhi lejasakte hai
- Thoda Romantic rahe: Halanki ye apki pehli date hogi lekin isme bhi thoda romance kerne ka mauka nhi chore. Unke sath thoda flirt kare, tareef kare
Date Pe Kya Nahi Kare
Aksar hum sare tyyari ker ke jate hai ki apko propose kyse kerna hai, date pe kha jaenge, vha kya kya karenge? Lekin kya apne kabhi isbare me socha hai ki date pe kya nhi kerna chahea.
Pareshan mat hoea hum apko batate hai ki jab ap date pe jae to kya na kare. Kyu ki apka aik galat faysla apke relationship ko kharab ker sakta hai
- Zid Na Kare: Agar usne apka proposal except kea hai to zahir si baat hai vo apse pyar kerti hai. Lekin hosakta hai uski koe majburi ho ya koe aur plan ho jiski vazah se vo date pe nhi jana chah rhi. To ap zid na kejea, bas wait kejea jab bhi vo free hojaegi vo zaruur aaegi
- Pehle hi date pe physical hone ki koshish na kare: Ye galti hum aksar ker baithte hai. Ladki ne haan bola aur hum use baho me bharne ke sapne dekhne lagte hai. Har relationship waqt mangta hai. Pehle ap ladki ka dil jeetiye. Jab ap uske dil me ghar bana lenge to unki baho me apka hi ashiyana hoga.
- Dinner kelea restaurent ka sahi selection kare: Agar ladki vegetarian ahi aur ap use kisi aisi jagah legae jha har jagah bas Non-veg laga ho to use kitna bura lagega. Islea apki uski pasand aur napasand ache se jan le
- Hotel room me date na kare: Pehli date humesha romantic honi chahea taki vo use yaad kare to apkelea aur zada feel kare. Agar apne koe room book kea hai aur use pehli hi date me vha lejarhe hai to chahe ap use kitna bhi samjha le lekin ap uski nazar me apne lea bhut hi negative impression bana rahe hai
- Jhut na bole ya jhute vade na kare: Askar ye galti bhi humse hojati hai ke pehli date pe hum apne bare me badha chadha ker batate hai. Bhale hi apki baate sunker vo impress hojae. Lekin kabhi apne socha hai jab haqeekat samne aaegi to kya hoga.
Ummed kerta hu ladkiyo ko propose kerne ka sahi tarika apko pasand aaya hoga. Agar apne humara pichla article nhi padha to niche click ker ke padh sakte hai:
Apna sujhao ya apna payar hume comment ke dwara jaruur de. Apna khayal rakhe aur khush rahe!
